I travel most weeks, so anything regular went out the window. Half my matches were bots and the other half were 'just seeing what's out there'. At some point I stopped telling people I was even trying. My sister rolled her eyes and told me to give military dating one genuine attempt before I judged it. I'm not saying it's magic, but my notifications finally feel worth checking twice. Whoever said you find things when you stop looking clearly never met my schedule.